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10 May 2010 @ 02:04 pm
you're uncontrolable and we're unlovable  
There are many things I don't get nowadays. Specially about relationships and the way young girls think (call me old lady and you die >l).

I know this guy who is a really, really good boy. He always takes care of everyone else, he's well-mannered and he's kind of cute. The thing is, he can't seem to find a girlfriend because all the girls he knows are crazy dramatic bitches  that like the dangerous type and the kind of men that make them suffer :/ and I've noticed that this kind of girls has been increasing dramatically. Also, they seem to thing that men are their playthings and that, as they go older and need stability, they will be able to leave this life behind and go spend the rest  of their lives with a good man (that in some cases will be one of the ones they rejected before). Is it just old-fashioned me, or women become more like men as decades go by? That is taking the equality thing too far.

Oh, and a minimal thing. I've realized that I don't feel comfortable celebrating special dates at fancy restaurants. Last time I didn't enjoy it. I was worried about the check the whole time and the food wasn't that good. Next time, I'll just go to Carl's Jr or something :)

This is random. I have nothing else to do as I wait for mom to come back from my uncle's place again. God, that man's got some issues.
 
 
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Francesca Garchitorena: for i can be as cruel as i wishwriter_craft on May 14th, 2010 04:39 am (UTC)
...all the girls he knows are crazy dramatic bitches that like the dangerous type and the kind of men that make them suffer :/ and I've noticed that this kind of girls has been increasing dramatically.

Welcome to the real world. Hope you enjoyed the slap of rude awakening while on your indefinite stay :P

It's all just a phase for me, I think---but someone needs to tell this kind of girl to get her shit together if she doesn't realize that what she is doing is disruptive and irresponsible. I've met girls who think that being with a boy who treats them like shit is only a test to see if she is gonna "change" him, all for the sake of twu wuv *vomits*

But it's just the way it goes.

...they seem to thing that men are their playthings and that, as they go older and need stability, they will be able to leave this life behind and go spend the rest of their lives with a good man (that in some cases will be one of the ones they rejected before)

I'm all for feminism but I also don't like women who act so competetive against men--like in order to prove she is strong, she has to be able to do what men does---and then they slander women who like being housewives because it really does make them happy. That's some new form of chauvinism and gender elitism to me also. Women can be as chauvinistic too. And this makes me sad sometimes :c
talentedinosaur: disturbedtalentedinosaur on May 14th, 2010 03:31 pm (UTC)
Why can't the real world be a little nicer? ): that makes me run and cry in Oscar's arms.

I LOL'D with the "changing" part. I don't think that there is a woman that can seriously change a man, especially if it's that kind of jerk.

And here I thought that Twilight would serve at least to set unrealistic expectations in relationships making them a little less... dissolute, ehem. Silly me, for thinking Twilight has a real purpose.
Francesca Garchitorena: love something not minewriter_craft on May 15th, 2010 04:39 am (UTC)
LOL. I actually thought of Twilight too, hence the expression twu wuv. XD And the fucking series has a purpose, apparently. It does provide me with some serious lulz. Except Breaking Dawn. It had indeed broken my brain. I cannot believe I survived reading the four books without considering killing myself. Swiftly. And without mercy.

Aww, I'll go hug Oscar too...I'm sure there's room enough for both of us.
talentedinosaur: disturbedtalentedinosaur on May 15th, 2010 11:37 pm (UTC)
'Vampire cesarean' it kind of lulzy, though. When I read the books I skipped all description and Bella's thoughts :l I just read the dialogues.

Francesca Garchitorena: there is greed and bloodlust beneathwriter_craft on May 21st, 2010 01:51 pm (UTC)
But the dialogues are not good for the brain either, dearie XD Jacob stereotypes Rosalie for being blonde most of the time. And Edward and Bella speak in purple prose.
Sivi: Yaarrdncrwatermelon on May 16th, 2010 06:07 pm (UTC)
Dramatic bitch is in dah hauz!
Sure you don't need to hear it from me here... because well you hear it from me everywhere else.

But it is not that simple for us dramtic bitches. if it were as simple as just getting the crap over with and sticking to the right mand, we would do it, or at least I would.

But no, you see there is a certain hypocricy and conformism in me just giving my back to all those "assholes" that I love so dearly and pretend to love an over-all sweet guy. I want something unignorable. I'mm pretty sure that they guys I've been with so far are not 'it' but the sweet guy you know isn't either... I'll just keep working my way there and let some other dramatic bitch delude herself into thinking she is going to change or change an asshole.

Wether you believe it or not, I'm not so irrational to think this way. i know guys like W. are not meant for me and neither are guys like D. I have to find my blessed middle and work to be the wonderfull woman that wonderfull man desserves.
talentedinosaur: disturbedtalentedinosaur on May 16th, 2010 09:52 pm (UTC)
O NOESSSSSS
LOL grammer.

An asshole is an asshole is an asshole...

There was a time looong ago when you thought D. could change, but I guess you were just PMS-ing baby. I know you need someone awesomer than that, and although I think knitting or playing soccer is a much healthier pastime that hanging out with jerks while you wait, well that's your choice. I know you get easily bored.

BTW why does everything have to be about you? You egocentric hooooo. I'm thinking about W and J, it just makes me sad and angry and I believe it's a such a waste D: